Sunday 7/25, Eric got up super early to go into town to get something for breakfast. I stayed in the tent until 9 or so. Went upstairs where everyone was busy packing and getting ready. I fed the dogs and started getting ready too, then Dad called up that breakfast was ready. Kass was filling me in on Sky and I told her Eric wouldn't tell me anything. We went down, had breakfast, then continued cleaning and packing up. I wanted to get out by
Saturday 7/24, Eric and Skylar went to breakfast with Papa while the rest of us had pancakes. We got ready and went river rafting and for once I didn't paddle and just enjoyed the ride. I sat in the back with Uncle Brad, Dad and Eric. We had a nice time and the temperature was perfect. We had snacks when we got back. Mom, Heidi and Grandma were all back too from going into town. I ate my fill and went upstairs to read for a while. I probably ventured down to the swimming hole as well but the water was still too cold for me. By the end of August it will probably be just right. Kass and Sky got into it and it was so ridiculous. So much drama every time we have a family event. Kass and I went for a drive and were gone for almost 2 hours looking at the Lake Wenatchee houses, exploring into the state park past the fields and then up some other roads. So beautiful. When we got back we had missed a lot and Mom was in a bad mood. Dinner was ready shortly after and Eric was helping after he got back. We had ribs, corn on the cob, potatoes and salad. I used my birthday glass for the occasion. After dinner Eric and I got all the stuff into the tent that we would need later. My movie was put on which was fun to watch then I opened presents and Kass went way overboard: 3 facials, one massage, 6 cds and little
Friday 7/23, Woke up before everyone and soon Alishia was up too so she could ride with Mom, Auntie Heidi and Grandma into
Thursday 7/22, Woke up and Dad made French Toast for breakfast. Aubs and I had ours and made lots of jokes with Dad. It was going to be a lazy day so I spent a lot of time upstairs reading with the little dogs (Daily Coyote). Castor spent most of his day in the water and running around. Mom made sandwiches for lunch. I don't remember doing much else. For dinner Eric was in the kitchen for a lot of the time. We had pork roast and twice baked potatoes. Mom and Eric did a lot of sampling. We had dinner around the fire then dessert but I stayed inside with Mom and Aubrie because of the mosquitoes. Dad and Eric managed to get the movie screen put together and working so we watched some Magnum PI Season 4 before most of us kids went upstairs to hang for the night. We did some mad libs and joked about Eric's little penis (not really). We were laughing so hard and the next day all the adults were asking what we were laughing at but we said we couldn't remember. Ha. Eric wanted to sleep in the tent but the sisters talked him out of it.
Wednesday 7/21, Eric was up at 4:30 and out of the house by 6 or so down to Tacoma to take care of some stuff with his car. I was about to walk out the door to gas up and print out the Saturn value at Kinkos when Eric walked in. We went together to do it and ended up at the DMV 10 minutes before they opened. I got the nice gal again and she told us what we needed to do. We set out for home, picked up the Saturn, drove down to MI and back then to the emissions, which took like 5 minutes. We headed back into Issaquah, paid the fees and were on our way with new plates. Back home we both took care of our own stuff. Eric got the car washed and packed, I vacuumed and packed. We set out for the airport to pick up Grandma, Papa and Alishia and gave them the Saturn to take to
Tuesday 7/20, I worked only part of the day and took Castor to his surgery consultation. Some good news, some bad. Total cost of everything is around $5k. Had to cough up $1,100 just for the CT Scan, but sounds like only the back part of his jaw will be removed and his canine can stay. We'll see. They have to do an aspirate to see if his swollen lymph node is cancerous or not. It was a hard day. I picked him up after work and was hoping Eric would go with me. I started to cry when the dr was talking to me but did a pretty good job of holding back. It's all just so fucking expensive. He was really out of it from the anesthesia so when we got home we went outside and sat in the grass and I paged through an Architectural Digest and he slept. The other pups joined in too and eventually Brizo was shivering but didn't want to not be with the rest of the gang. Eric came home with a haircut and an iphone. He helped me get Castor in. We all took it easy and I didn't do much packing, but did some laundry and I think picked up a little. I tried to feed Castor his late dinner but he wasn't hungry. Once I let the little dogs eat out of his bowl then he wanted it. Thankfully he didn't throw up from the nausea. We all went to bed.
Monday 7/19, The end of my workday was stressful with 5500s and the filings not going through. I went to the DMV and figured out what was needed to transfer the title on the Saturn. Back home and Eric had plans for a rental car. I just wanted the Saturn finished, I had a headache, was stressed, started crying (reoccurring theme these days), talked things out, picked up poop, made the bed and made the dogs’ dinner. After our talk Eric made dinner and we watched tv. It was
Sunday 7/18, Woke up after 8 or so. Eric slept in the tent so I had the bed to myself. Kristel was already out of bed so I got up and went down. Dad made pancakes and there was a lot of fresh fruit. Ate a lot. People were packing up and getting ready to go when I wasn't even dressed. First Kristel, then Peter and Stefanie and lastly Schuyler and Chrystol. Kass, Kate and Sunshine were all staying behind to relax. Eric and I packed up and left around 1 and didn't have too much traffic. The dogs were happy to see us when we got home. We lounged and I talked to Mom on the phone. Later that evening I went to the store for some things, but not much since it was only going to be a 2 day workweek. I think I read and spent a lot of time by myself. Can't remember the rest. Probably just watched a little tv and went to bed.
Saturday 7/17, Up at like 7, went down and Mom was about to leave for town. Dad was working, I dressed and started bringing chairs and deck stuff out. Kass was up around 8 and we went to the Hardware store for coffee. Eric hadn't arrived yet and I was starting to worry. He was there when we returned. Kate was still asleep. We all worked and got things ready. Mom was back a little after
Friday 7/16, Worked until
Thursday 7/15, Took Nyx to have her teeth cleaned. She was out of it for most of the rest of the day. I felt so bad for her she kept almost falling over. I mostly packed and organized. I was feeling a little better about everything and Eric and I had a talk about everything and he told me not to worry and to stay positive. He fell asleep early while I was in the shower. I went to bed not much later.
Wednesday 7/14, I had a dream I made out with Jason Segel and it was gooood. Also, LPC wrote a book on Norwegian finance and was on the cover wearing a suit with his arms crossed. Perhaps they were the same person in my dream. There was also a fold out centerfold of him in the middle. I told him as much (in real life) and he said he'd give up his best seller proceeds for some centerfold dreams of me and reminded me I'm always invited to come over for a nap. Eric took Brizo to the vet and didn't put the correct amount of time down for when she ate. Geez, that shit drives me nuts. Anyway, they had to pull 4 of her little teeth and now she doesn't have any on the top front. It went fine otherwise. When I picked her up she was so out of it and stayed that way for a while. Went home and grilled Eric, he had the day off and had been doing something for Mom for me for my birthday. She walked around a little in the yard then we went inside. I made the bed and hung with the dogs. Eric came in and knew I was still upset and I told him it's because he doesn't tell the truth and he was defensive but we eventually saw eye to eye. I fed the dogs and took them out and we went to Super Supplements then over to Bento Box (went there with Susan a million years ago!) where we ordered food and took it home. We watched I Love You, Man and it was hit and miss with Eric (needed a Jason Segel fix). We got ready for bed and I read a bit of the trashy tabloids before bed and Eric was out by 10 or so.
Tuesday 7/13, Heard from Aerowood and they recommend a place in
Monday 7/12, Called the oncologist but did not receive a call back. Called Aerowood to get their opinion and Banfield faxed Castor’s info over and their dr. would call me back. I stopped at All the Best and they helped me get some immune boosting supplements for Castor and one is specifically good for dogs with cancer. It was another effort not to cry while explaining his predicament. At home Eric was making bbq chicken, casear salad and gluten free cornbread. I did some laundry and picked up a bit. We had a nice dinner and watched a little tv. I started Middlesex before bed.
Sunday 7/11, Woke up and got ready by 9. Called RH Eric to see what we were doing but he never called back. I laid on the bed, Eric said he wouldn't go to Schuyler's so I wouldn't be alone. I told him to go and after talking for an hour or so he did. I stayed in bed until 1. Finally got up and moved around, made a little lunch, went to Home Depot to pick up some peel and stick flooring samples to replace the carpet in the kitchen and den; a temporary fix. I like the cork but we'll probably go with the cheapest since it's only temporary and to get the smell out. I took Castor and Nyx on a walk when I got home and when we returned Eric was home. We sat and talked a bit and I fell asleep again. Eric woke me up and we went over to Mom's to pick up the big pots. Also picked up some rugs and other odds and ends that were in Grandpa's storage unit. We stopped at the store and picked up stuff for dinner, headed home and I fed the dogs and Eric got the grill going. We unloaded the truck and eventually had dinner around 8. Steak, whole roasted potatoes and salad. I think we watched some tv and I probably finished off a back issue of AD before going to bed.
Saturday 7/10, Got up early, did a bunch of laundry and tidied up. Kristel, Stefanie, Peter and Jacqueline arrived right around 9. We locked up the dogs and took off about 15 minutes later. We had to stop in
Friday 7/9, Made appts for all the dogs, Brizo and Nyx teeth cleaning, Castor mouth tumor is back. I did some stuff around the house until Eric got home then we went outside and I picked up crap while he relaxed on the deck. It was so nice out. We watered the plants and enjoyed being outside. I ate leftovers for dinner. I don't think we stayed up too late because we were hiking in the morning.
Thursday 7/8, Mom was home when I got there and her and Eric were getting everything ready to plant the trees and getting the areas marked out. I closed all the windows and put on the ac in the bedroom to try and cool it down. We got both dogwoods planted in the front yard and all the dirt offloaded. Eric went to get some stuff at Ace and also to get some dinner. Mom and I talked sat in the back and talked with the dogs while we waited. By
Wednesday 7/7, Hot day. Went home and beat Eric, the house was nice and cool. Thanks flagstone and hardwood floors! And no insulation under the house! Took the dogs out, watered a couple plants and back inside to call Mom. Oh, and the new front doors arrived, gorgeous! Mom put in the order for me and Eric and I took off in the truck to pick up the top soil. Got it wholesale, yay! Back home and left the dirt in the truck, showered, fed the dogs and went out to dinner. He'd never eaten at PF Changs so we went there and got too much food. I hardly ate any of my entree. It was freezing in there. We drove over to Mom's with the windows down to drop off her phone. We stayed for quite a while and she showed me which pots she's giving me. We left after 9, stopped at the store and got home right around 10. The house was hot, compared to outside so we opened all the windows and doors and brought out the a/c but only used the fan. It was cool in no time. I climbed into bed, figured out the parts for the murder mystery party, responded to Kristel, Peter and Stefanie about hiking and gave them their parts. Went to bed a little after 11.
Tuesday 7/6, Got home and Eric was already there mowing the lawn and had taken the dogs out. I asked if he wanted to go get the table from Peggy's so we got in the truck and sat in traffic for a long time trying to get on the freeway. Finally made it over, loaded in the table and back home. I showered, got ready, got a call from Kass and took off for Capitol Hill. Parked on 14th, her and Sunshine came to pick me up and we went over to Monsoon. I was hoping Jason was working and he was! I haven't seen him in ages. Megan pulled up just as we were. We wanted an outside seat but were waiting for a long time so Jason hooked it up. We bagged sitting outside and got a nice table inside. We started perusing and came up with a whole bunch of food to order. Jason gave us hints at the baby's name but none of us guessed it. Kate was supposed to come but she wasn't feeling it, so we sent her the riddle and she guessed it on the first try! 8 letter name, Old English style, something an old man would be named, starts with an A. Bam, she got it, but didn't spell it right. We ate and ate, and laughed and talked and we were very loud, but what can you do. It was fun. Jason brought out a plethora of desserts and eventually when everyone else had left he sat down and chatted with us. Brought out the ipad to look up vajazzle and found some pretty pictures. It was so funny. We finally wrapped it up around
Monday 7/5, I slept in until 9, finally got up and fed the dogs. Took them out and found Eric and Peter chatting and eating on the deck. I got ready and started packing up and cleaning. K went for coffee and by the time she got back we were pretty much done. I asked P & S if they wanted to come to my murder mystery birthday party and they accepted. The day was beautiful and warm and it totally sucked we had to pack and head back. Put the final things in the car and off we went with me and the dogs in my car and Eric and the garbage in the truck. The pass was rainy and dreary. Bleh. I called Mom on the way and told her we'd be over as soon as possible but that we were still over an hour away. We got home by
Sunday 7/4, Woke up super early, unfortunately, because Eric was up at 6 and then the dogs kept being loud and irritating me. Fell back asleep and woke up at
Saturday 7/3, In the morning he was up early and got pastries from the French bakery. I was going to get gas and clean my car but he insisted and took care of it. I packed and texted Kristel, ate a pastry and started getting the dogs' stuff together. He came back, we took the dogs out, loaded up the car and set off around
Friday 7/2, I was sent home with a shit load of hellebores and some other little plants, 2 zero gravity recliners and a little table that needs a coat of rustoleum and it will be as good as new! The dogs were out when I got home which meant Eric had already been home and was hopefully out getting dirt so we could plant the last two magnolias. He pulled up in his car and I was like arggggg! He couldn't get Chris' truck, his car's "check engine" light came on and he cancelled his phone. I was beyond frustrated and disappointed. I didn't want to haul everything over to Plain in my car because there'd be no room and all the dogs. I was digging plants and he started doing it for me as I pulled off the dead stuff. We got into an argument in the front yard, he was jumping down my throat for being disappointed; I was quiet because I was mad. It wasn't pretty. Mom called and that signaled the end our talking for the next 15 or so hours. We went in the backyard and he planted the rest of the plants, I pulled weeds and dead stuff off the roses. He mowed the lawn and fertilized and I went inside to hang with the dogs and feed them. I called Dad and asked if we could borrow the truck for the next two weeks so Eric couldn't use that excuse against me again. I was being very strategic. Dad calmed me down and reminded me of the yin and yang. He was right but I wasn't about to go out there and confront him. I ate some pasta, stayed in the bedroom and he left to get food. He watched tv and slept on the couch. Good times.
Thursday 7/1, Eric didn't get the dirt for the trees and was running late. I played with the dogs outside in the back for a while and cleaned up the house while waiting for him to come home. We went for a walk with all the dogs and he made chicken masala for dinner with mushrooms, spinach and onions atop a bed of orzo. Yum! I cleaned up the kitchen and we hung in bed for the rest of the night.
Wednesday 6/30, I took Castor and Nyx for a walk at the park and Eric got Chipotle for dinner. Uneventful evening. Read and to bed.
Tuesday 6/29, Off work early and rushed home, took the dogs out, changed my clothes, fed the dogs, Eric came home, he started getting ready (for Josh’s surprise birthday party), took the dogs out again and left by 5:20. We arrived at like
Monday 6/28, Eric and I took a walk at the park with all the dogs. Baby Brizo did ok; she had some funny moments of channeling her inner wild stallion. Back at home we had leftovers and I had pasta with then without sauce. For dessert I enjoyed some rocky road. I showered and climbed into bed to read. I finished the Mental Floss I started at the airport and started Bark, which Chrystol gave me for Christmas. There is an incredible story about a dog rescue in Guatamala and they take in and care for strays and ship a few lucky ones to the
Sunday 6/27, Up early again because Schuyler called Eric on my phone to cancel watching soccer. That made me angry. All I wanted to do was sleep in. Didn't happen. I got up just as Eric came home from Home Depot and he took the dogs out for me. I got dressed and we started going at it outside. I picked up dog poop, then inside and tried to get the bed made up. I took a bunch of stuff to Goodwill and when I got back finished the bed and unpacking from the trip. Started some laundry and then organizing my bills. Got almost done by the time Mom showed up with the new screens. We walked around a bit then went in the backyard to look at the fence. Eric was busy edging, feeding the plants, mowing, weeding and clearing out the roses. They look so much better. I finished my bills just as Mom was going to take off. I ate some lunch and fell asleep on the bed with the dogs. I woke up and was really out of it. I knew I needed to get up but my eyes kept closing. Finally woke up and Eric and I went to the store for some weekly provisions. I went through some more boxes from the garage, finished my property tax appeal, watched a little tv, ate dinner (delicious squash vegetable pasta) and eventually got ready for bed. Eric was reading in bed and I joined him. He went to sleep first and I followed around 11.
Saturday 6/26, I couldn't sleep past
Friday 6/25, Only one day at work felt good, but also didn't go by very fast. I felt kind of tired after work so I mostly sat on the bed and did stuff online, like pay bills I think. Eric made dinner and brought it in to me (teriyaki chicken stir fry yakisoba thing). I think it was a late dinner. We talked about what to get Chrystol for her birthday then I showered and thought up a good idea. When I got out I told Eric I had something in mind and he made reference to "


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