Friday 11/30, I went home and we did a few things around the house before taking a shower and getting ready to go to Stef and Peter’s. We took off and made it to their place right as Sky and Chrystol pulled up. We went up and it smelled great. We sat and talked and dinner was dished up not long after we arrived. Peter made goulash and it was very good. We had great conversation and did plenty of laughing. Sky and Eric are going to go to one of Peter and Stef’s international expat meet-ups and pretend to be Dutch and Greek, respectively. Stefanie made a gluten free apple pie for dessert that was delicious. We stayed until almost midnight then headed home. Last night before getting our next foster dog.
Thursday 11/29, Susan came over after work and we sat talking in the dining room for awhile while she showed us the ropes of OK Cupid. She admired our Christmas village and I explained each establishment. We decided to get dinner at Szechuan Chef and had an evening filled with delicious food and gossip. I filled her in about RH Eric and we discussed the intricacies of relationships. Went home after dinner and Susan left and I promised to send an update on Saturday’s events and help with windows possibly on Sunday. Inside Eric and I chatted for a few minutes before I hopped in the shower. We got into bed and I updated this while he continued with his book (Working Poor). We watched Office and Parks and Rec. I continued to read the RH Eric era blog posts, updated this and we went to bed before 11.
Wednesday 11/28, I texted RH Eric and finally got a response (I’ve texted and fb him a couple times trying to see how he’s doing) and we decided to meet up for dinner Saturday night. It’s been almost two years since I’ve seen him. Driving home I was so pumped up and singing along with my Lana cd. I was singing and dancing around for Eric and he asked me why I was so worked up. I had some errands I wanted to run so we went out. Up to Bartell’s first so I could get contact solution. On the way up there he told me he wouldn’t be going to Kassie’s open house on the 13th which irritated me because I told him several times the date and times. Oh well. We went to Goodwill and dropped off some stuff and also picked up some Christmas village items: ceramic painted trees, high school and a bookstore (that was supposed to be a beautiful house but was in the wrong box). We went to the store and picked up a few things then home where Eric made dinner and I started to set up the village. I called both Moms and made plans for Sunday tile-perusing with one, and discussed Christmas presents with the other. We had dinner after 8 and watched Modern Family at 9. I showered and got into bed then we watched one episode of Big Love and went to bed at 11.
Tuesday 11/27, Eric was out running when I got home. I felt tired. Eric heated up leftovers shortly before 6 and also fed the dogs. I got to reading my blog from 2006 and carried away with the month of August. The RH Eric period. I was feeling very nostalgic and started from the point I met him and kept on going. Eric came in so I closed it and we put on Big Love and watched two episodes. It was 11; Eric watched something on PBS and I updated this.
Monday 11/26, Eric was home when I got there. My neck was really bothering me so I skipped running. I rearranged some of the xmas houses and presents then put up the new RT bust in the entryway. Eric and I went to the store to get stuff for dinner. We decided on some veggie enchiladas that were delicious. We talked while Eric cooked which was a nice change. I watched some more of the Bond special features but it was over pretty quickly. We put on Big Love (season 4) and watched one episode before going to bed.
Sunday 11/25, Eric got up early and went to work. I got up shortly before 9, took the dogs out, fed them, ate some breakfast and got back into bed. I continued watching the James Bond bonus disc features. I did some other stuff online then finally forced myself to get out of bed at 11:30. I made the bed and took Nyx out to the pool room to give her a haircut. Next was a bath and ear cleaning. Her ears look much better but still a lot of gunk coming out of the one. I had some lunch, cleaned up the kitchen then gave Brizo and Clancy baths. They wanted to run around the house for a bit then it was time for a nap, for all of us. Eric got home at 3:45 and we all got up. We went out to the front yard to move the daphne odora, lavender and blueberry bush, all to plant the new peony tree. Hope it makes it after sitting in the garage the whole time we were gone. Back inside I took all the Christmas houses out for setup then we both relaxed and Eric made dinner. I showered and continued on my Bond-kick by putting on the Casino Royale bonus disc. Eric didn’t want to watch so he went out in the den. Went to bed.
Saturday 11/24, Eric was up at 7 and I was up a half hour later getting ready to go to breakfast with Grandma, Papa, Mom and Dad. We went to Bobby’s and had a good breakfast. Back at home Eric and I jumped in the car to head down to the Design District again so I could get the RT bust using my Small Business Saturday funds. We headed home and started packing and stripping the bed. We decorated the tree and took pictures and Aubrie burned me the Paradise cd. We took off and we were running a little late. Traffic sucked and I was worried we might not actually make our flight. There was a line at the ticket counter of course, even though there never is. The security line was long too, which it never is. We got to the gate right as they were calling all rows. I checked my bag at the gate and we boarded. The flight went quickly and we arrived 20 minutes early, got our bags, shuttled to get the car and headed home. Made it home before 6. The dogs were very happy to see us. We decompressed and headed to the store around 7 to pick up stuff for dinner. Eric made his delicious vinaigrette, a rustic bread-y grilled cheese and tomato soup. I watched Quantum of Solace and watched the first part of the bonus disc until I started falling asleep.
Friday 11/23, It was Aubrie’s birthday. Dad made pancakes. They were delicious! We went to Mom’s 10:30 Jazzericse class at a different center than we usually go to. Grandma came too. Dad and Eric went in the Corvette and Aub, Grandma and I took the Acadia. Eric and Dad were cracking everyone up. Close to the end Grandma started having an episode and not knowing how she got there and didn’t know where her purse was. She knew she was having one and told us she was losing it. Dad took her outside and talked to her. We continued working out but didn’t really know what to do. Mom finished her class and went out to find out what was going on. Grandma’s not supposed to exercise but wanted to do the class. Apparently she’d had one of these episodes before, that was triggered by exercise. Mom and Aubrie took Grandma to Urgent Care, Dad drove the Corvette home and Eric and I drove Mom’s Cadillac with the top down. We followed Dad and he kept burning this Bentley off the line and the tail end was being real squirrely. Eric floored the Cadillac too and it was quite a ride. At home we showered and hung out, waiting for news. We told Papa what happened and Eric and I made him some lunch. They came home and Grandma kept asking the same questions over and over again and would cry when we told her she’d been there three days already because she thought they’d just gotten there that day. It’s some form of amnesia. Mom put on a funny movie (Blast From the Past) per the doctor’s instructions and we urged her to relax. I watched a little of it. She gets too worked up and combined with the exercise it sets off this weird amnesia episode that lasts several hours and even days later she can’t remember what happened. Aubrie wanted to go to Peppertree so Dad, her, Eric and I all took off but it was closed. It was fast becoming the worst birthday for her. It was the only thing she wanted to do that day. We went to Cold Stone instead. We went home and watched a few minutes of Rookie of the Year then the three of us took off to pick up Christian at work. We went to his parent’s house so he could give her her birthday present. They have a very cool house, though the floor plan would probably make it difficult to decorate. Back at home we watched some more of the movies Mom put on for Grandma. I wanted to exchange my Lana del Rey cd because it didn’t have the bonus tracks so Eric and I took off for Spin and took the back roads. We arrived back home and Aubrie opened her presents then took off for a party. Eric and I decided to go see the new James Bond (Skyfall) and asked Dad if he wanted to go. He said no, but told us later he regretted it as soon as we left. It was so foggy as we drove to the theater and we had to go super slow at some parts. The movie was excellent and made me love Daniel Craig even more. We got home and went to bed by 12:30.
Thursday 11/22, Eric took off in the morning with Dad and Aubrie for the Turkey Trot in Oceanside. They picked up Alishia who was still sleeping and not answering her phone. Eric threw things at her bedroom window to get her up then Tyson came downstairs barking and knocked over a box fan. Eric was very pleased with himself but was not pleased with Alishia. They did the race and Aubrie was super proud of herself for running the whole thing and finishing strong (in a sprint). I got up at the time that they were probably half way done. I talked to Grandma inside while I ate a donut for breakfast then went and sat out on the front doorstep because the sun was out there and felt soooo wonderful. Christian came out and talked to me for awhile before taking off to go get Aubrie’s birthday present. Dad, Aubrie and Eric came home as I was sunning and filled me in on the race. We relaxed and took it easy for most of the day and ate lots of snacks. Eric helped Mom and Grandma all day in the kitchen. I was feeling restless at times so I took a lot of timeouts in the motorhome. Christian’s parents came over so then I felt even more restless. Eric asked if I wanted to go for a walk so first we walked down to the main road (Melrose? Meridian?) then back up and by the big mansion (Villa Vista) and tried to figure out who lives there and what the deal is. We went pretty far down the road and looked at all the houses with crappy landscaping and huge lots. Back at home we played a rousing game of Trivial Pursuit and the women came up from behind for a win (major upset). We had dinner around 8, maybe? It was good but I wasn’t all that hungry. We had dessert in the family room and continued to chat. Christian’s parents left not long after and we said we’d see them the next night. I think we went to bed around midnight.
Wednesday 11/21, We got a little bit of a slow start to the day. Aub, Christian, Eric and me were heading to Temecula for the day. We left around 10 and made decent time. The weather was gorgeous and warm when we arrived. We walked around town and popped into shops. By 11:30 we were ready for lunch and went to the Public House and sat out in the back patio area. Lunch was very good and relaxing. We continued walking through town and stopped in to get some ice cream in the candy shop (huge scoops) and Eric got some hot sauce for Uncle Brad then some Virgi’s root beer from Germany at the root beer shop. It was very good; it had nutmeg in it or something. We headed back by 1:15 and arrived home at 2. We changed and headed down to the outlet mall to have our Santa pictures taken. They went very well and Eric wore one of the sister shirts for our photo and had a hilarious look on his face; real eager. Alishia left to go to Benihana while the rest of us went into Old Carlsbad to Spin where I got the new Lana del Rey double album. Aubrie and I were so excited. I got her some dvds for her birthday and talked the guy into one for free. We went over to Benihana for Aubrie’s birthday dinner. We had a very nice meal and Dad was his usual enthusiastic self. Alishia was her usual flirty / forward self with the chef but he had a gf. We went home after dinner but did not have birthday pizza because we were waiting until Friday for her actual birthday. Went to bed not too late.
Tuesday 11/20, Eric was up early and I got up a little after him and went inside. Dad was just about to leave for work. I had some cereal, showered and we got ready to go. We took a drive and headed for the 101, with a detour to get Mom’s car washed. We went south to the Solana Beach Design District. We popped into shops and browsed and I found a paper mache rat terrier bust that I fell in love with but couldn’t justify buying. I bought some Christmas ornaments, one for me and one for Mom. We ended up at a little café to have a snack because I was starving. Eric had coffee, I had a pain au chocolate. We sat in the sun and it was amazingly nice outside. I talked to Court and we agreed to meet up a little after 12. We stopped in a kitchen / bath design center and I found a bunch of stuff I liked, especially some textured white tile which would be beautiful in the shower. We headed for La Jolla to meet Court and Pat at the Day School where we saw Court’s classroom. It was very cute. We went to Rock Bottom for lunch and had an ehh lunch, but I had salad so I didn’t feel too guilty. We were there for a couple hours then headed home. Mom, Grandma and Papa were there. Mom, Grandma, Eric and I took off to do some errands. We went to the store for dinner supplies, picked up the 5k stuff for Eric and the girls and lastly to BB&B so Mom could get a new fondue set. Back home and Dad had arrived from work. Alishia came over after work and Aubrie showed up after class. We got ready for dinner and Christian arrived mid-meal. We had fondue, fries and salad. After dinner we all sat around and talked. Slowly people peeled off and we made plans for the next day to go to Temecula and do Santa pictures. Eric and I went to bed.
Monday 11/19, P was back in the office so we had a long, busy day. I was in early and stayed until my normal time. At home I showered, packed up the rest of my stuff, had some dinner, fed the dogs and Eric showed me everything he’d done that day to clean up. Dad called and we chatted for a few minutes. It was pouring (2” of rain that day). We headed to the airport shortly after 6 and made it there with plenty of time to spare. We went to Dillatante before going to our gate. I got an oatmeal cookie. Our flight left at 8:45 and was pretty much on time. We landed at 11:30 and we had some turbulence, which Eric hates. Mom and Dad met us out on the curb and we had a nice chat on the way home. Mom and Dad showed Eric around the house then we went out to the motorhome to bed. It was about 12:30 and Mom and Dad both had to work the next day.
Sunday 11/18, Eric headed to work a little after 8 and Mom arrived by 9:15. I had a ton of chores to do but also wanted to work on the design of the bathrooms. I dug up the dahlias and did some tidying while Mom worked. She stayed three hours and we didn’t have anything concrete, though there were a few ideas out there. I vacuumed and mopped the kitchen and den. Did laundry and tried to get the house ready for when Stef and Peter watch the dogs. I got quite a bit done before Eric got home. I packed my bag and tried to get everything as ready as possible for our trip to San Diego. We had pizza for dinner. We didn’t stay up late because I was going into work early the next morning and Eric was going to drive me so he could use my car to run his errands.
Saturday 11/17, We were up early and getting ready. We left the house at 9:30 to go meet Sky and Chrystol for breakfast. We met at their house and chatted for a few minutes before taking off and deciding on a place down from the Rusty Tinman or wherever Randy used to go drink. They do crepes and I got one with bacon, peppers, potato and other stuff. I didn't finish it. We walked up to a little chocolate place and I got a hot chocolate that was delicious and rich. We went to the All Aboard train antique place kitty-corner and there were some really cute things but not in the budget. Back to the car and decided to go to the Rosellini estate sale. I didn't get anything but tried to convince Sky to buy the Cadillac. We went back to Ballard and talked in their living room and had a divided conversation about semi-open relationships (Me and Sky on one side, Eric and Chrystol on the other). We talked right up until the point where we needed to leave so Eric could get to work on time. I dropped him off and headed home. The dogs were happy to see me and we ended up relaxing for the rest of the afternoon (it was after 3). I wanted to watch Project Runway, from the beginning, but they only put two episodes online. So scratch that. Eric was home late that night and I took it easy that night. Watched 48 Hours and went to sleep.
Friday 11/16, Eric decided to go see a movie with Sky and Chrystol. Susan was waiting at home when I arrived. We sat and chatted in the living room for the evening. We read old blog entries from our Thursday night escapes and simultaneously laughed and tried to remember who some of the characters were (Moose? Hot Derek?). She stayed until 8ish then headed home. I had something simple for dinner and did stuff online. I went to bed after 10 and Eric came home shortly after. I was already asleep.
Thursday 11/15, Woke up to an apologetic note on my bathroom counter. I was still irritated. We didn’t really talk before I left for work. I stayed late at work and brought some work home. I finished my credit card statement when I got home then did my work. Eric apologized again and we talked about it for a minute. He made dinner and it was finished just as I was done with my work. We ate in the living room and watched tv. I went into the bedroom to watch the prior week’s Office and Parks and Rec, then this week’s episodes were on tv. He came in and watched them with me. We cleaned Nyx’s ears since they’re still bothering her and Eric did Clancy’s nails. I got ready for bed, updated this, watched a little Seinfeld and went to bed.
Wednesday 11/14, I was off work a little early and Eric was home when I got there. I scooped poop then started in on organizing the bills and filing. I did a little cleaning out of drawers in the buffet and looked for my Visa statement. Eric made dinner and brought it into the bedroom for me. I caught up on my online gossip and watched the prior week’s Modern Family, then the current week’s Modern Family. Eric and I got into a tiff right before bed; I showered and we went to bed without saying anything to each other. He drives me crazy when he picks fights and won’t let me finish a thought without jumping down my throat.
Tuesday 11/13, Janell sent pictures of our next foster dog; still deciding on a name but leaning toward Isi (deer in Choctaw). Got home a little early and Eric and I ran a mile and a half through the neighborhood then took the dogs around the block for another half mile. Ate dinner when we got back. I had plans to organize but ended up doing more Christmas shopping and purchasing of elf costumes for the murder mystery party. Talked to Mom about sweaters and not sure what I’m going to do for her gift. Not sure about the fireplace either. I keep flip flopping. Showered and into bed to update this and other stuff by 9. Went to bed after 11.
Monday 11/12, I technically had the day off but decided to go in to get a jump on work. I was up early so headed in. I worked four hours and was done by 11. I went home and ate lunch (leftovers) then headed out to learn about fireplace inserts and pricing. I went to three places and the first was by far the best (Rich’s). I got a quote and if I end up doing it I’ll use them. I stopped by and got four loaves from the bread outlet. On my way home I went to Super Supplements to get dishwasher soap. At home I brought all my bills and things out to the living room to organize, but ended up just doing stuff online and listening to music. I talked with Cherry for awhile in the backyard then inside. Eric got home shortly after. We talked about the bathrooms and remodeling versus putting in an insert. I’m torn. Not sure what I’ll do. I didn’t do much for the rest of the night, except a ton of Christmas shopping online because I want to be done by the end of the week.
Sunday 11/11, We were both up early. Eric took the dogs out and stashed them in the den while we cuddled, etc. We ate breakfast and got ready and organized all Perri’s stuff. We took off for Burlington and made good time. I stopped at Haagen to get a snack then over to Maiben Park to meet the potential adopters. Perri was so friendly and rolled over almost immediately for the Dad (the one who needed a little convincing) and Sue did an immediate about-face and was like, “Ok, I’ll go get the contract”. It was funny. I knew that would happen. They loved her and took turns holding her. We chatted for a bit but the husband and kids were cold so they were ready to go. We said goodbye and off Perri went, bound for Canada. We drove back down and listened to the game for most of the ride. Eric was all excited. I dropped him off at home and went to the bank. At home I ran around doing stuff and researching fireplace inserts. We went to the store to get stuff for dinner. Eric made tater tot casserole. Delicious! Went to bed early because I was tired and exhausted.
Saturday 11/10, I had insanely hot dreams about Ryan Gosling. Ok, not that hot. It was more that we had an intense connection (like Driver and Irene) without a lot of talking. And our knees were touching while we sat waiting for a production or show to start. I woke up at 5 something and went to make sure Alix had made it up and out; she had. We were up by 8, packed up, called the bellboy, checked out, checked our email then over to Starbucks. I got a muffin, Kassie got coffee. We went down to the beach and sat out for a few hours, trying to soak up the last UV rays possible. At 12:30 we headed up to the hospitality suite to shower and get ready for our flights. We caught our cab right at 1:30 to the airport. I got through my line quickly and over to wait for Kass. We went through security without issue then walked through all the duty free shops and also looked for a souvenir charm for her bracelet; couldn’t find anything. We got some pizza for lunch (ehh) then waited by her gate for her to board. We said goodbye and I went over to my gate. Our flight was running late, but luckily I was able to board in the first wave for first class. Since it was a longer flight we got more food, drinks and digi players (Kass hates that term). I watched Descendents and Due Date. The first one was a tear jerker the second I laughed my ass off. We landed a little late; I texted Eric letting him know. I made it down to Immigration very quickly, was about the fifth person in line, breezed through Customs because I didn’t check my bag, onto the train to the main terminal and out to the curb to meet Eric, all in about 7 minutes. It was the fastest I’ve ever gone through. I know that probably won’t happen again. When I got in the car I called Sue to firm up plans for the next day to meet up for them to meet Perri. Eric and I talked the rest of the way home. I was a little worked up when I got home; kind of a mild franticness. I tried putting most of my stuff away from my trip. Eric was looking to get lucky but I was totally not into it. I went to bed early since my internal clock was two hours ahead of Seattle time. Last night with my Per-Per.
Friday 11/9, We spent the day down at the beach. Kass came down to the beach with me for awhile before her massage then left. Alix came down and I went up to have lunch while she watched the stuff. After her massage Kassie came down. Kass and I went in not too deep. I finally finished my book and the second to last chapter was very disturbing (Cherry). Alix was up in the room for part of the day because she didn’t feel good. We went to get her a smoothie, but ended up getting ours first then to get some soup for Kassie at the bistro. She almost peed her pants at lunch but I don’t remember why. I know part of it was when she was going to give a shitty tip and I made a horrified face. There was something else that started it though. She was holding her crotch so she wouldn’t pee her pants. We stopped at the store to get Alix some bread, got her smoothie, then up to the room. The three of us went down to the lobby to check in for our flights. Kass and I both got upgraded to first class so that made me very happy. Kass also bought me the peony tree I wanted so I’m really excited about that. We asked concierge for a dinner recommendation and she suggested La Dolce Vita. We went up to the room to hang out for a while before dinner. We all started packing and I felt really well organized. We got dressed up and headed out to dinner. Everyone was very accommodating and over and above helpful. The food was wonderful. I had a caprese salad to start then some ravioli with fresh tomato. We were stuffed and headed home. I had some ice cream. Alix went to bed because she had to be up at 4:00 am. Kass and I watched Drive and I drooled over the Baby Goose. We went to bed afterward. I had a wonderful dream.
Thursday 11/8, Alix and I got up earlier than Kass, ate breakfast, got ready, went down to check our email then out to the water taxi hut to check the fare and schedule (it was expensive!). Decided to beach it for the day and rescheduled Kassie’s massage for the next day. Got a decent tan, went in the water for awhile but the waves were insane and we kept having to dive under them. Back on dry land I read my book and went up at 2:45. Got ready, booked our tour, met Kass in the lobby to go over dinner options then down to the pier. We were early so we went up to the yacht club for a drink and chips. Kass was wearing high heels and as we walked down to the boat a guy was like “Hey barbie, don’t fall; because if you do I’m going to help you up” and she was like “Uh oh, I don’t want that!”. He gave a skeevy laugh. It was very funny. Our trip into Old Town PV was hilarious with crazy waves, water spraying everywhere, an old lady’s wig threatening to fly off, etc. We were all dressed up and our hair and clothes were wet, then in a final twist there was no dock in Old Town PV so we had to jump off the boat into the water where we got all wet and sandy. We were like, “Are you fucking kidding?”. We wandered around, found a spigot to wash off our feet, said bye to gay friends (from Denmark we were guessing), perused shops, found the beaded shop with gorgeous creations and bought a ton of shit. We got dinner recommendation from the shop manager and ended up at Joe Jacks which had excellent food and atmosphere, as promised. We were serenaded by a local group who were very enamored with Kassie. We loved the place. Kass dared Alix to hit on the table of Asian guys next to us for $200. She didn’t. After dinner we walked around, found another shop with great art and accessories, bought a piece (chubby girl with doll), watched an impromptu Jazzercise class in a town square at 10pm, walked into downtown over the bridge, heard someone say to Kassie, “Hey Princess”, then caught a cab back to NV. I went down to the lobby to check email and back to the room for bed.
Wednesday 11/7, Woke up by 10ish, went down to check emails, then to the beach. Spent the day down there and spent some time in the water with Kassie. Back up at our chairs she offered me hundreds of dollars then up to $2k if I would get my hair braided, wear it for the rest of the trip and until the 14th when she got up to Seattle. Then I would have to go out to dinner, in Seattle, with her and still wearing the braids. I declined. Alix thought I was crazy. For lunch we to the Mexican place in the mall. It was better than the resort but still not fantastic. Kass went to her massage and Alix and I walked out to the jetty then down the beach past the Hard Rock, which was swarming with barely-clothed gay men. We were hanging out back at the room when Kass came back from her massage. We hung in the room for most of the night. I was down in the lobby a lot checking email, etc., and Alix went to bed by 9. Kass and I watched Hall Pass and she ordered room service that almost made her vomit. She was being a little dramatic. She watched About a Boy on tv after it was over and I went to bed.
Tuesday 11/6, Woke up and went down to the beach to soak up the sun on Alishia’s last day. She packed up and left by 2:15. We went to the store for more supplies then went back down to the beach until sunset. I alternated between being under the umbrella and in the sun. I didn’t want to burn. I was making my way through my book at a leisurely space. We ordered pizza to the room for dinner which took forever and was terrible. It was election day so we watched a lot of the results throughout the afternoon and evening. Kassie and I watched “Rebound” which was hilarious. We flipped between the movie and election updates, while Alix watched non-stop coverage in her room. I went to the lobby to check email and fb and the election was called for Obama. Stayed up super late waiting for Romney’s concession and state results. Gay marriage and pot were still up in the air with no clear winner.
Monday 11/5, I was up by 9ish, had my breakfast and sat out on the deck. We all got ready pretty quickly and went down to the beach for the day. We got decent seats and stayed down there for a few hours. I was in the shade most of the time and read my book. Kass and Alishia went in the water for a long time and when they got back we went and got lunch. It was like 1. We went to a little bistro in the mall, starts with a J, can’t remeber. My soup was good but the veggie panini left something to be desired. It was like stir fry vegetables on a warmed up ciabatta. Ehhh. We changed back into our suits and went back down to the beach. Kass and Alix slept for most of it. Alishia and I both fell asleep but then some loud lady yelled and woke us up. We were irritated. We chatted about Desperate Housewives and other shiz while the girls slept. Finally Kass woke up and was a real grumpy dumpy then went and got some ice cream. We got the bill for the drinks and went back up to the room. I showered and soon we were preparing to go to dinner. We decided on Tulum. The food was pretty good and our conversations were hilarious. We walked by the fiesta on the way home. Alishia and Kassie went to find the stuff to play bocce ball but they were closed. Alix and I checked our email and such. I wrote to Eric to tell him he'd have to do Perri's vet stuff for her app and Genie let me know we're all set with the meetup on Sunday. We checked Alishia in for her flight and she got upgraded to first class for $50 just like me! I updated this and watched Jerry Maguire with Kass in bed. Went to bed after 11 sometime.
Sunday 11/4, We slept in and when I got up I sat on the deck and read. Alix joined me and we had our breakfast out there. Alishia got up next and joined us and finally Alix woke up Kassie so we could get going on our day. We all got ready and went to the lobby to catch a cab to PV. Our driver took us to Old Town to get some tacos. Most of them were fish but he did up some beef for me. I had three, hoping it would keep me full for the rest of the day. They were like a dollar a piece. We walked up to a little store where Kass bought us each a new shirt and one for Aubrie. We caught a cab back to downtown and went to Starbucks so Kass could get a coffee fix. Next we walked up the boardwalk along the water where a guy said to Kassie, "Hey, moviestar" and we all died. We sat down for a little bit and people watched then headed back, got a donut that wasn't that great then to Roberto's for some gelato. We went to a candy shop where Kass got a bunch of non-candy and I got some of the bird seed treat that Quickie fed us in Playa. We stopped in a slipper store and I got a pair of nautical style slippers. We caught a cab back to NV and our cab driver was super into weed and wanted to get us some. Kassie did a lot of recording in the cab; I just kept rolling my eyes wanted the eff out. When we got back we changed into our suits and went down to the beach. We sat out there for a few hours and Kass got some food. We stayed until it got chilly and headed back up. I wasn't hungry but Alishia and Kass were so they went to the fancy restaurant while Alix and I stayed behind and watched tv in bed. They came home hours later after shutting down the restaurant. I fell asleep shortly after.
Saturday 11/3, We were up at 4am and out of the house a half hour later. Made it to the airport and got upgraded to first class for the LAX to PVR leg of the flight. Gave Eric a kiss and hug goodbye and headed through security. I got some yogurt and a scone for breakfast at Dilettante then to the gate. We were on time and I watched Crazy, Stupid, Love on the way down. I had a pretty long layover but talked to Alishia for awhile to pass the time. Boarded at 10:30 in first class and was so excited. I sat next to a nice lady who vacations often. Had lunch, watched part of Sarah Marshall and soon after landed. It took awhile to get through immigration then I found the sisters in baggage claim. Alix and I went through customs together and she got the red light. Out to the curb and caught a cab to the resort. I checked us in and all was good and up to the room. It was a smoking room and really stank, so I went down and requested another one and got a non-smoking with a view of the canal and marina. Major upgrade. We got settled and relaxed. We did a tour around the grounds and decided on one of the restaurants for dinner. The food was ok and afterward we went to the store and picked up stuff for breakfast and other snacks. Got stuff for Alix's infected leg and back home. We took it easy and went to bed around midnight.
Friday 11/2, I went to work super early so I was able to leave early which was good because we were going down to Federal Way to meeat with Pip's adopters. The contract was sent out in the morning and I arranged with Annette our plans to meet. I got home and Eric had most of everything set to go; I had to do a few things like put together feeding instructions and all that then I called Annette and we took off. The rain started when we left and was pouring by the time we got down there. It took awhile with traffic but we arrived at the same time as Annette and husband. We chatted with them and I'm so glad they adopted her because I think they'll be a great family for her. I left feeling relieved and we got home much more quickly than it took to drive south. I packed and did stuff around the house. I wanted to go to bed early but didn't until about 11. We had to be up super early to go to the airport.
Thursday 11/1, More packing in preparation for the trip. I talked with Genie about the Pip situation and also about Perri's applicants (slam dunk). I was trying to pack and get other stuff ready for the trip as well. Eric and I went to Super Supplements where I got honey for Pip's cough and travel size toiletries for my trip. At home I ran around while Eric made dinner. Got a lot done but I was stressing about Contracts getting Pip's contract out and getting the adoption finalized. I was checking my email every 5 minutes. Didn't get it that night and continued freaking out.
Thursday 11/29, Susan came over after work and we sat talking in the dining room for awhile while she showed us the ropes of OK Cupid. She admired our Christmas village and I explained each establishment. We decided to get dinner at Szechuan Chef and had an evening filled with delicious food and gossip. I filled her in about RH Eric and we discussed the intricacies of relationships. Went home after dinner and Susan left and I promised to send an update on Saturday’s events and help with windows possibly on Sunday. Inside Eric and I chatted for a few minutes before I hopped in the shower. We got into bed and I updated this while he continued with his book (Working Poor). We watched Office and Parks and Rec. I continued to read the RH Eric era blog posts, updated this and we went to bed before 11.
Wednesday 11/28, I texted RH Eric and finally got a response (I’ve texted and fb him a couple times trying to see how he’s doing) and we decided to meet up for dinner Saturday night. It’s been almost two years since I’ve seen him. Driving home I was so pumped up and singing along with my Lana cd. I was singing and dancing around for Eric and he asked me why I was so worked up. I had some errands I wanted to run so we went out. Up to Bartell’s first so I could get contact solution. On the way up there he told me he wouldn’t be going to Kassie’s open house on the 13th which irritated me because I told him several times the date and times. Oh well. We went to Goodwill and dropped off some stuff and also picked up some Christmas village items: ceramic painted trees, high school and a bookstore (that was supposed to be a beautiful house but was in the wrong box). We went to the store and picked up a few things then home where Eric made dinner and I started to set up the village. I called both Moms and made plans for Sunday tile-perusing with one, and discussed Christmas presents with the other. We had dinner after 8 and watched Modern Family at 9. I showered and got into bed then we watched one episode of Big Love and went to bed at 11.
Tuesday 11/27, Eric was out running when I got home. I felt tired. Eric heated up leftovers shortly before 6 and also fed the dogs. I got to reading my blog from 2006 and carried away with the month of August. The RH Eric period. I was feeling very nostalgic and started from the point I met him and kept on going. Eric came in so I closed it and we put on Big Love and watched two episodes. It was 11; Eric watched something on PBS and I updated this.
Monday 11/26, Eric was home when I got there. My neck was really bothering me so I skipped running. I rearranged some of the xmas houses and presents then put up the new RT bust in the entryway. Eric and I went to the store to get stuff for dinner. We decided on some veggie enchiladas that were delicious. We talked while Eric cooked which was a nice change. I watched some more of the Bond special features but it was over pretty quickly. We put on Big Love (season 4) and watched one episode before going to bed.
Sunday 11/25, Eric got up early and went to work. I got up shortly before 9, took the dogs out, fed them, ate some breakfast and got back into bed. I continued watching the James Bond bonus disc features. I did some other stuff online then finally forced myself to get out of bed at 11:30. I made the bed and took Nyx out to the pool room to give her a haircut. Next was a bath and ear cleaning. Her ears look much better but still a lot of gunk coming out of the one. I had some lunch, cleaned up the kitchen then gave Brizo and Clancy baths. They wanted to run around the house for a bit then it was time for a nap, for all of us. Eric got home at 3:45 and we all got up. We went out to the front yard to move the daphne odora, lavender and blueberry bush, all to plant the new peony tree. Hope it makes it after sitting in the garage the whole time we were gone. Back inside I took all the Christmas houses out for setup then we both relaxed and Eric made dinner. I showered and continued on my Bond-kick by putting on the Casino Royale bonus disc. Eric didn’t want to watch so he went out in the den. Went to bed.
Saturday 11/24, Eric was up at 7 and I was up a half hour later getting ready to go to breakfast with Grandma, Papa, Mom and Dad. We went to Bobby’s and had a good breakfast. Back at home Eric and I jumped in the car to head down to the Design District again so I could get the RT bust using my Small Business Saturday funds. We headed home and started packing and stripping the bed. We decorated the tree and took pictures and Aubrie burned me the Paradise cd. We took off and we were running a little late. Traffic sucked and I was worried we might not actually make our flight. There was a line at the ticket counter of course, even though there never is. The security line was long too, which it never is. We got to the gate right as they were calling all rows. I checked my bag at the gate and we boarded. The flight went quickly and we arrived 20 minutes early, got our bags, shuttled to get the car and headed home. Made it home before 6. The dogs were very happy to see us. We decompressed and headed to the store around 7 to pick up stuff for dinner. Eric made his delicious vinaigrette, a rustic bread-y grilled cheese and tomato soup. I watched Quantum of Solace and watched the first part of the bonus disc until I started falling asleep.
Friday 11/23, It was Aubrie’s birthday. Dad made pancakes. They were delicious! We went to Mom’s 10:30 Jazzericse class at a different center than we usually go to. Grandma came too. Dad and Eric went in the Corvette and Aub, Grandma and I took the Acadia. Eric and Dad were cracking everyone up. Close to the end Grandma started having an episode and not knowing how she got there and didn’t know where her purse was. She knew she was having one and told us she was losing it. Dad took her outside and talked to her. We continued working out but didn’t really know what to do. Mom finished her class and went out to find out what was going on. Grandma’s not supposed to exercise but wanted to do the class. Apparently she’d had one of these episodes before, that was triggered by exercise. Mom and Aubrie took Grandma to Urgent Care, Dad drove the Corvette home and Eric and I drove Mom’s Cadillac with the top down. We followed Dad and he kept burning this Bentley off the line and the tail end was being real squirrely. Eric floored the Cadillac too and it was quite a ride. At home we showered and hung out, waiting for news. We told Papa what happened and Eric and I made him some lunch. They came home and Grandma kept asking the same questions over and over again and would cry when we told her she’d been there three days already because she thought they’d just gotten there that day. It’s some form of amnesia. Mom put on a funny movie (Blast From the Past) per the doctor’s instructions and we urged her to relax. I watched a little of it. She gets too worked up and combined with the exercise it sets off this weird amnesia episode that lasts several hours and even days later she can’t remember what happened. Aubrie wanted to go to Peppertree so Dad, her, Eric and I all took off but it was closed. It was fast becoming the worst birthday for her. It was the only thing she wanted to do that day. We went to Cold Stone instead. We went home and watched a few minutes of Rookie of the Year then the three of us took off to pick up Christian at work. We went to his parent’s house so he could give her her birthday present. They have a very cool house, though the floor plan would probably make it difficult to decorate. Back at home we watched some more of the movies Mom put on for Grandma. I wanted to exchange my Lana del Rey cd because it didn’t have the bonus tracks so Eric and I took off for Spin and took the back roads. We arrived back home and Aubrie opened her presents then took off for a party. Eric and I decided to go see the new James Bond (Skyfall) and asked Dad if he wanted to go. He said no, but told us later he regretted it as soon as we left. It was so foggy as we drove to the theater and we had to go super slow at some parts. The movie was excellent and made me love Daniel Craig even more. We got home and went to bed by 12:30.
Thursday 11/22, Eric took off in the morning with Dad and Aubrie for the Turkey Trot in Oceanside. They picked up Alishia who was still sleeping and not answering her phone. Eric threw things at her bedroom window to get her up then Tyson came downstairs barking and knocked over a box fan. Eric was very pleased with himself but was not pleased with Alishia. They did the race and Aubrie was super proud of herself for running the whole thing and finishing strong (in a sprint). I got up at the time that they were probably half way done. I talked to Grandma inside while I ate a donut for breakfast then went and sat out on the front doorstep because the sun was out there and felt soooo wonderful. Christian came out and talked to me for awhile before taking off to go get Aubrie’s birthday present. Dad, Aubrie and Eric came home as I was sunning and filled me in on the race. We relaxed and took it easy for most of the day and ate lots of snacks. Eric helped Mom and Grandma all day in the kitchen. I was feeling restless at times so I took a lot of timeouts in the motorhome. Christian’s parents came over so then I felt even more restless. Eric asked if I wanted to go for a walk so first we walked down to the main road (Melrose? Meridian?) then back up and by the big mansion (Villa Vista) and tried to figure out who lives there and what the deal is. We went pretty far down the road and looked at all the houses with crappy landscaping and huge lots. Back at home we played a rousing game of Trivial Pursuit and the women came up from behind for a win (major upset). We had dinner around 8, maybe? It was good but I wasn’t all that hungry. We had dessert in the family room and continued to chat. Christian’s parents left not long after and we said we’d see them the next night. I think we went to bed around midnight.
Wednesday 11/21, We got a little bit of a slow start to the day. Aub, Christian, Eric and me were heading to Temecula for the day. We left around 10 and made decent time. The weather was gorgeous and warm when we arrived. We walked around town and popped into shops. By 11:30 we were ready for lunch and went to the Public House and sat out in the back patio area. Lunch was very good and relaxing. We continued walking through town and stopped in to get some ice cream in the candy shop (huge scoops) and Eric got some hot sauce for Uncle Brad then some Virgi’s root beer from Germany at the root beer shop. It was very good; it had nutmeg in it or something. We headed back by 1:15 and arrived home at 2. We changed and headed down to the outlet mall to have our Santa pictures taken. They went very well and Eric wore one of the sister shirts for our photo and had a hilarious look on his face; real eager. Alishia left to go to Benihana while the rest of us went into Old Carlsbad to Spin where I got the new Lana del Rey double album. Aubrie and I were so excited. I got her some dvds for her birthday and talked the guy into one for free. We went over to Benihana for Aubrie’s birthday dinner. We had a very nice meal and Dad was his usual enthusiastic self. Alishia was her usual flirty / forward self with the chef but he had a gf. We went home after dinner but did not have birthday pizza because we were waiting until Friday for her actual birthday. Went to bed not too late.
Tuesday 11/20, Eric was up early and I got up a little after him and went inside. Dad was just about to leave for work. I had some cereal, showered and we got ready to go. We took a drive and headed for the 101, with a detour to get Mom’s car washed. We went south to the Solana Beach Design District. We popped into shops and browsed and I found a paper mache rat terrier bust that I fell in love with but couldn’t justify buying. I bought some Christmas ornaments, one for me and one for Mom. We ended up at a little café to have a snack because I was starving. Eric had coffee, I had a pain au chocolate. We sat in the sun and it was amazingly nice outside. I talked to Court and we agreed to meet up a little after 12. We stopped in a kitchen / bath design center and I found a bunch of stuff I liked, especially some textured white tile which would be beautiful in the shower. We headed for La Jolla to meet Court and Pat at the Day School where we saw Court’s classroom. It was very cute. We went to Rock Bottom for lunch and had an ehh lunch, but I had salad so I didn’t feel too guilty. We were there for a couple hours then headed home. Mom, Grandma and Papa were there. Mom, Grandma, Eric and I took off to do some errands. We went to the store for dinner supplies, picked up the 5k stuff for Eric and the girls and lastly to BB&B so Mom could get a new fondue set. Back home and Dad had arrived from work. Alishia came over after work and Aubrie showed up after class. We got ready for dinner and Christian arrived mid-meal. We had fondue, fries and salad. After dinner we all sat around and talked. Slowly people peeled off and we made plans for the next day to go to Temecula and do Santa pictures. Eric and I went to bed.
Monday 11/19, P was back in the office so we had a long, busy day. I was in early and stayed until my normal time. At home I showered, packed up the rest of my stuff, had some dinner, fed the dogs and Eric showed me everything he’d done that day to clean up. Dad called and we chatted for a few minutes. It was pouring (2” of rain that day). We headed to the airport shortly after 6 and made it there with plenty of time to spare. We went to Dillatante before going to our gate. I got an oatmeal cookie. Our flight left at 8:45 and was pretty much on time. We landed at 11:30 and we had some turbulence, which Eric hates. Mom and Dad met us out on the curb and we had a nice chat on the way home. Mom and Dad showed Eric around the house then we went out to the motorhome to bed. It was about 12:30 and Mom and Dad both had to work the next day.
Sunday 11/18, Eric headed to work a little after 8 and Mom arrived by 9:15. I had a ton of chores to do but also wanted to work on the design of the bathrooms. I dug up the dahlias and did some tidying while Mom worked. She stayed three hours and we didn’t have anything concrete, though there were a few ideas out there. I vacuumed and mopped the kitchen and den. Did laundry and tried to get the house ready for when Stef and Peter watch the dogs. I got quite a bit done before Eric got home. I packed my bag and tried to get everything as ready as possible for our trip to San Diego. We had pizza for dinner. We didn’t stay up late because I was going into work early the next morning and Eric was going to drive me so he could use my car to run his errands.
Saturday 11/17, We were up early and getting ready. We left the house at 9:30 to go meet Sky and Chrystol for breakfast. We met at their house and chatted for a few minutes before taking off and deciding on a place down from the Rusty Tinman or wherever Randy used to go drink. They do crepes and I got one with bacon, peppers, potato and other stuff. I didn't finish it. We walked up to a little chocolate place and I got a hot chocolate that was delicious and rich. We went to the All Aboard train antique place kitty-corner and there were some really cute things but not in the budget. Back to the car and decided to go to the Rosellini estate sale. I didn't get anything but tried to convince Sky to buy the Cadillac. We went back to Ballard and talked in their living room and had a divided conversation about semi-open relationships (Me and Sky on one side, Eric and Chrystol on the other). We talked right up until the point where we needed to leave so Eric could get to work on time. I dropped him off and headed home. The dogs were happy to see me and we ended up relaxing for the rest of the afternoon (it was after 3). I wanted to watch Project Runway, from the beginning, but they only put two episodes online. So scratch that. Eric was home late that night and I took it easy that night. Watched 48 Hours and went to sleep.
Friday 11/16, Eric decided to go see a movie with Sky and Chrystol. Susan was waiting at home when I arrived. We sat and chatted in the living room for the evening. We read old blog entries from our Thursday night escapes and simultaneously laughed and tried to remember who some of the characters were (Moose? Hot Derek?). She stayed until 8ish then headed home. I had something simple for dinner and did stuff online. I went to bed after 10 and Eric came home shortly after. I was already asleep.
Thursday 11/15, Woke up to an apologetic note on my bathroom counter. I was still irritated. We didn’t really talk before I left for work. I stayed late at work and brought some work home. I finished my credit card statement when I got home then did my work. Eric apologized again and we talked about it for a minute. He made dinner and it was finished just as I was done with my work. We ate in the living room and watched tv. I went into the bedroom to watch the prior week’s Office and Parks and Rec, then this week’s episodes were on tv. He came in and watched them with me. We cleaned Nyx’s ears since they’re still bothering her and Eric did Clancy’s nails. I got ready for bed, updated this, watched a little Seinfeld and went to bed.
Wednesday 11/14, I was off work a little early and Eric was home when I got there. I scooped poop then started in on organizing the bills and filing. I did a little cleaning out of drawers in the buffet and looked for my Visa statement. Eric made dinner and brought it into the bedroom for me. I caught up on my online gossip and watched the prior week’s Modern Family, then the current week’s Modern Family. Eric and I got into a tiff right before bed; I showered and we went to bed without saying anything to each other. He drives me crazy when he picks fights and won’t let me finish a thought without jumping down my throat.
Tuesday 11/13, Janell sent pictures of our next foster dog; still deciding on a name but leaning toward Isi (deer in Choctaw). Got home a little early and Eric and I ran a mile and a half through the neighborhood then took the dogs around the block for another half mile. Ate dinner when we got back. I had plans to organize but ended up doing more Christmas shopping and purchasing of elf costumes for the murder mystery party. Talked to Mom about sweaters and not sure what I’m going to do for her gift. Not sure about the fireplace either. I keep flip flopping. Showered and into bed to update this and other stuff by 9. Went to bed after 11.
Monday 11/12, I technically had the day off but decided to go in to get a jump on work. I was up early so headed in. I worked four hours and was done by 11. I went home and ate lunch (leftovers) then headed out to learn about fireplace inserts and pricing. I went to three places and the first was by far the best (Rich’s). I got a quote and if I end up doing it I’ll use them. I stopped by and got four loaves from the bread outlet. On my way home I went to Super Supplements to get dishwasher soap. At home I brought all my bills and things out to the living room to organize, but ended up just doing stuff online and listening to music. I talked with Cherry for awhile in the backyard then inside. Eric got home shortly after. We talked about the bathrooms and remodeling versus putting in an insert. I’m torn. Not sure what I’ll do. I didn’t do much for the rest of the night, except a ton of Christmas shopping online because I want to be done by the end of the week.
Sunday 11/11, We were both up early. Eric took the dogs out and stashed them in the den while we cuddled, etc. We ate breakfast and got ready and organized all Perri’s stuff. We took off for Burlington and made good time. I stopped at Haagen to get a snack then over to Maiben Park to meet the potential adopters. Perri was so friendly and rolled over almost immediately for the Dad (the one who needed a little convincing) and Sue did an immediate about-face and was like, “Ok, I’ll go get the contract”. It was funny. I knew that would happen. They loved her and took turns holding her. We chatted for a bit but the husband and kids were cold so they were ready to go. We said goodbye and off Perri went, bound for Canada. We drove back down and listened to the game for most of the ride. Eric was all excited. I dropped him off at home and went to the bank. At home I ran around doing stuff and researching fireplace inserts. We went to the store to get stuff for dinner. Eric made tater tot casserole. Delicious! Went to bed early because I was tired and exhausted.
Saturday 11/10, I had insanely hot dreams about Ryan Gosling. Ok, not that hot. It was more that we had an intense connection (like Driver and Irene) without a lot of talking. And our knees were touching while we sat waiting for a production or show to start. I woke up at 5 something and went to make sure Alix had made it up and out; she had. We were up by 8, packed up, called the bellboy, checked out, checked our email then over to Starbucks. I got a muffin, Kassie got coffee. We went down to the beach and sat out for a few hours, trying to soak up the last UV rays possible. At 12:30 we headed up to the hospitality suite to shower and get ready for our flights. We caught our cab right at 1:30 to the airport. I got through my line quickly and over to wait for Kass. We went through security without issue then walked through all the duty free shops and also looked for a souvenir charm for her bracelet; couldn’t find anything. We got some pizza for lunch (ehh) then waited by her gate for her to board. We said goodbye and I went over to my gate. Our flight was running late, but luckily I was able to board in the first wave for first class. Since it was a longer flight we got more food, drinks and digi players (Kass hates that term). I watched Descendents and Due Date. The first one was a tear jerker the second I laughed my ass off. We landed a little late; I texted Eric letting him know. I made it down to Immigration very quickly, was about the fifth person in line, breezed through Customs because I didn’t check my bag, onto the train to the main terminal and out to the curb to meet Eric, all in about 7 minutes. It was the fastest I’ve ever gone through. I know that probably won’t happen again. When I got in the car I called Sue to firm up plans for the next day to meet up for them to meet Perri. Eric and I talked the rest of the way home. I was a little worked up when I got home; kind of a mild franticness. I tried putting most of my stuff away from my trip. Eric was looking to get lucky but I was totally not into it. I went to bed early since my internal clock was two hours ahead of Seattle time. Last night with my Per-Per.
Friday 11/9, We spent the day down at the beach. Kass came down to the beach with me for awhile before her massage then left. Alix came down and I went up to have lunch while she watched the stuff. After her massage Kassie came down. Kass and I went in not too deep. I finally finished my book and the second to last chapter was very disturbing (Cherry). Alix was up in the room for part of the day because she didn’t feel good. We went to get her a smoothie, but ended up getting ours first then to get some soup for Kassie at the bistro. She almost peed her pants at lunch but I don’t remember why. I know part of it was when she was going to give a shitty tip and I made a horrified face. There was something else that started it though. She was holding her crotch so she wouldn’t pee her pants. We stopped at the store to get Alix some bread, got her smoothie, then up to the room. The three of us went down to the lobby to check in for our flights. Kass and I both got upgraded to first class so that made me very happy. Kass also bought me the peony tree I wanted so I’m really excited about that. We asked concierge for a dinner recommendation and she suggested La Dolce Vita. We went up to the room to hang out for a while before dinner. We all started packing and I felt really well organized. We got dressed up and headed out to dinner. Everyone was very accommodating and over and above helpful. The food was wonderful. I had a caprese salad to start then some ravioli with fresh tomato. We were stuffed and headed home. I had some ice cream. Alix went to bed because she had to be up at 4:00 am. Kass and I watched Drive and I drooled over the Baby Goose. We went to bed afterward. I had a wonderful dream.
Thursday 11/8, Alix and I got up earlier than Kass, ate breakfast, got ready, went down to check our email then out to the water taxi hut to check the fare and schedule (it was expensive!). Decided to beach it for the day and rescheduled Kassie’s massage for the next day. Got a decent tan, went in the water for awhile but the waves were insane and we kept having to dive under them. Back on dry land I read my book and went up at 2:45. Got ready, booked our tour, met Kass in the lobby to go over dinner options then down to the pier. We were early so we went up to the yacht club for a drink and chips. Kass was wearing high heels and as we walked down to the boat a guy was like “Hey barbie, don’t fall; because if you do I’m going to help you up” and she was like “Uh oh, I don’t want that!”. He gave a skeevy laugh. It was very funny. Our trip into Old Town PV was hilarious with crazy waves, water spraying everywhere, an old lady’s wig threatening to fly off, etc. We were all dressed up and our hair and clothes were wet, then in a final twist there was no dock in Old Town PV so we had to jump off the boat into the water where we got all wet and sandy. We were like, “Are you fucking kidding?”. We wandered around, found a spigot to wash off our feet, said bye to gay friends (from Denmark we were guessing), perused shops, found the beaded shop with gorgeous creations and bought a ton of shit. We got dinner recommendation from the shop manager and ended up at Joe Jacks which had excellent food and atmosphere, as promised. We were serenaded by a local group who were very enamored with Kassie. We loved the place. Kass dared Alix to hit on the table of Asian guys next to us for $200. She didn’t. After dinner we walked around, found another shop with great art and accessories, bought a piece (chubby girl with doll), watched an impromptu Jazzercise class in a town square at 10pm, walked into downtown over the bridge, heard someone say to Kassie, “Hey Princess”, then caught a cab back to NV. I went down to the lobby to check email and back to the room for bed.
Wednesday 11/7, Woke up by 10ish, went down to check emails, then to the beach. Spent the day down there and spent some time in the water with Kassie. Back up at our chairs she offered me hundreds of dollars then up to $2k if I would get my hair braided, wear it for the rest of the trip and until the 14th when she got up to Seattle. Then I would have to go out to dinner, in Seattle, with her and still wearing the braids. I declined. Alix thought I was crazy. For lunch we to the Mexican place in the mall. It was better than the resort but still not fantastic. Kass went to her massage and Alix and I walked out to the jetty then down the beach past the Hard Rock, which was swarming with barely-clothed gay men. We were hanging out back at the room when Kass came back from her massage. We hung in the room for most of the night. I was down in the lobby a lot checking email, etc., and Alix went to bed by 9. Kass and I watched Hall Pass and she ordered room service that almost made her vomit. She was being a little dramatic. She watched About a Boy on tv after it was over and I went to bed.
Tuesday 11/6, Woke up and went down to the beach to soak up the sun on Alishia’s last day. She packed up and left by 2:15. We went to the store for more supplies then went back down to the beach until sunset. I alternated between being under the umbrella and in the sun. I didn’t want to burn. I was making my way through my book at a leisurely space. We ordered pizza to the room for dinner which took forever and was terrible. It was election day so we watched a lot of the results throughout the afternoon and evening. Kassie and I watched “Rebound” which was hilarious. We flipped between the movie and election updates, while Alix watched non-stop coverage in her room. I went to the lobby to check email and fb and the election was called for Obama. Stayed up super late waiting for Romney’s concession and state results. Gay marriage and pot were still up in the air with no clear winner.
Monday 11/5, I was up by 9ish, had my breakfast and sat out on the deck. We all got ready pretty quickly and went down to the beach for the day. We got decent seats and stayed down there for a few hours. I was in the shade most of the time and read my book. Kass and Alishia went in the water for a long time and when they got back we went and got lunch. It was like 1. We went to a little bistro in the mall, starts with a J, can’t remeber. My soup was good but the veggie panini left something to be desired. It was like stir fry vegetables on a warmed up ciabatta. Ehhh. We changed back into our suits and went back down to the beach. Kass and Alix slept for most of it. Alishia and I both fell asleep but then some loud lady yelled and woke us up. We were irritated. We chatted about Desperate Housewives and other shiz while the girls slept. Finally Kass woke up and was a real grumpy dumpy then went and got some ice cream. We got the bill for the drinks and went back up to the room. I showered and soon we were preparing to go to dinner. We decided on Tulum. The food was pretty good and our conversations were hilarious. We walked by the fiesta on the way home. Alishia and Kassie went to find the stuff to play bocce ball but they were closed. Alix and I checked our email and such. I wrote to Eric to tell him he'd have to do Perri's vet stuff for her app and Genie let me know we're all set with the meetup on Sunday. We checked Alishia in for her flight and she got upgraded to first class for $50 just like me! I updated this and watched Jerry Maguire with Kass in bed. Went to bed after 11 sometime.
Sunday 11/4, We slept in and when I got up I sat on the deck and read. Alix joined me and we had our breakfast out there. Alishia got up next and joined us and finally Alix woke up Kassie so we could get going on our day. We all got ready and went to the lobby to catch a cab to PV. Our driver took us to Old Town to get some tacos. Most of them were fish but he did up some beef for me. I had three, hoping it would keep me full for the rest of the day. They were like a dollar a piece. We walked up to a little store where Kass bought us each a new shirt and one for Aubrie. We caught a cab back to downtown and went to Starbucks so Kass could get a coffee fix. Next we walked up the boardwalk along the water where a guy said to Kassie, "Hey, moviestar" and we all died. We sat down for a little bit and people watched then headed back, got a donut that wasn't that great then to Roberto's for some gelato. We went to a candy shop where Kass got a bunch of non-candy and I got some of the bird seed treat that Quickie fed us in Playa. We stopped in a slipper store and I got a pair of nautical style slippers. We caught a cab back to NV and our cab driver was super into weed and wanted to get us some. Kassie did a lot of recording in the cab; I just kept rolling my eyes wanted the eff out. When we got back we changed into our suits and went down to the beach. We sat out there for a few hours and Kass got some food. We stayed until it got chilly and headed back up. I wasn't hungry but Alishia and Kass were so they went to the fancy restaurant while Alix and I stayed behind and watched tv in bed. They came home hours later after shutting down the restaurant. I fell asleep shortly after.
Saturday 11/3, We were up at 4am and out of the house a half hour later. Made it to the airport and got upgraded to first class for the LAX to PVR leg of the flight. Gave Eric a kiss and hug goodbye and headed through security. I got some yogurt and a scone for breakfast at Dilettante then to the gate. We were on time and I watched Crazy, Stupid, Love on the way down. I had a pretty long layover but talked to Alishia for awhile to pass the time. Boarded at 10:30 in first class and was so excited. I sat next to a nice lady who vacations often. Had lunch, watched part of Sarah Marshall and soon after landed. It took awhile to get through immigration then I found the sisters in baggage claim. Alix and I went through customs together and she got the red light. Out to the curb and caught a cab to the resort. I checked us in and all was good and up to the room. It was a smoking room and really stank, so I went down and requested another one and got a non-smoking with a view of the canal and marina. Major upgrade. We got settled and relaxed. We did a tour around the grounds and decided on one of the restaurants for dinner. The food was ok and afterward we went to the store and picked up stuff for breakfast and other snacks. Got stuff for Alix's infected leg and back home. We took it easy and went to bed around midnight.
Friday 11/2, I went to work super early so I was able to leave early which was good because we were going down to Federal Way to meeat with Pip's adopters. The contract was sent out in the morning and I arranged with Annette our plans to meet. I got home and Eric had most of everything set to go; I had to do a few things like put together feeding instructions and all that then I called Annette and we took off. The rain started when we left and was pouring by the time we got down there. It took awhile with traffic but we arrived at the same time as Annette and husband. We chatted with them and I'm so glad they adopted her because I think they'll be a great family for her. I left feeling relieved and we got home much more quickly than it took to drive south. I packed and did stuff around the house. I wanted to go to bed early but didn't until about 11. We had to be up super early to go to the airport.
Thursday 11/1, More packing in preparation for the trip. I talked with Genie about the Pip situation and also about Perri's applicants (slam dunk). I was trying to pack and get other stuff ready for the trip as well. Eric and I went to Super Supplements where I got honey for Pip's cough and travel size toiletries for my trip. At home I ran around while Eric made dinner. Got a lot done but I was stressing about Contracts getting Pip's contract out and getting the adoption finalized. I was checking my email every 5 minutes. Didn't get it that night and continued freaking out.

